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Mia Kiraki 🎭's avatar

Tracy, having the four types named separately makes this so much more usable than "just be yourself and post" - the good, ol' advice haha.

What catches me off guard with my own notes is how the identity ones consistently outperform the ones where I'm teaching something or pointing people to my work. You'd think demonstrating value would pull more subscribers in than demonstrating personality.. But the tribal notes travel further every time. People subscribe because they recognized themselves, not because they learned something.

Love your framework so much! ❤️

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

I’ve experienced the exact same, Mia! The only type of “teach” note I’ve seen do ok is if it’s like a super micro lesson (super basic/easy.) I’ve definitely seen that it’s the tribal, the emotional trigger that gets people to engage and then really buy-in to the rest of what we say. So interesting, right? Thank you for your comment! And p.s I love YOUR most recent paid post, I’m digging in on it and it’s just so cool.

Mia Kiraki 🎭's avatar

Yeah same! And I've played around with longer notes - those never do super well. Thank you Tracy ❤️❤️❤️

Cook n' Uncook's avatar

As someone who is starting out, this feels like landing on goldmine. It felt personal and experienced. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!

Liya Dashkina's avatar

Love this approach so much Tracy! I treat my notes as a “personality tableau” - you get to know me and how I think. My articles are nerdy, without much personality. Notes is where I hope to find my people.

The High-Ticket Closer's avatar

Pure genius, and the best kind of strategy is the one that comes from the heart. LOVE IT! Excited to subscribe!!!! 🌟💛 found you through Kat Kim. 💫

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

Fantastic! Thank you! ❤️🥂

Ross O'Ceallaigh's avatar

Such great advice! Thanks for the tip and motivation to get posting more.

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

Awesom, Ross!

Michaela Krimmer's avatar

Usually don’t read and like the “How to guides” on Substack. But yours was very entertaining and likeable. Thank you so much!

Ars Eclectica's avatar

"Guys like us, we got each other." George Milton, Of Mice and Men. Amen.

Joe Giessinger's avatar

One thing I’ve noticed after taking Notes more seriously is that the goal isn’t just relationships—it’s recognizability. After enough thoughtful interactions, people start recognizing how you think before they remember exactly what you write about. That feels like a much more durable foundation than chasing reach. Do you think that’s where the real compounding happens?

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

Yes, it’s the best part about Notes!

Karen Guest's avatar

I love the idea that Notes aren't just content; they're signals. Every Note quietly teaches people what kind of conversations they're stepping into. The audience we attract isn't shaped only by what we say, but by the culture we create one interaction at a time.

JT Clough | Your Dog Knows's avatar

I wrote a note yesterday about me and my dog and what we’d done… took a walk on the beach. I don’t need to make small talk with him. I cannot stand small talk. People liked it. It turns out after reading this I was writing a people like us note!

Andi Kay 🌷's avatar

love this so much!

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

Thank you! ❤️

miss e's avatar

Thank you for this! So helpful and refreshing to see advice that is actually tangible and easily applied for everyone.

Joe Nolan's avatar

I love Godin

Anna Svoboda's avatar

!! Finally a flexible, realistic and personal framework...this feels so much more manageable and authentic than the other advice I've come across, thank you xx

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

I’m so happy, Anna! ❤️

Sadie Beyl's avatar

Thanks so much for this guideline Tracy, it's a great reminder to be real - in all areas of life. Ihaven't posted a note yet because I like to write long form and I don't use AI any more because it all started to sound the same. Some notes here on Substack are irrelevant and some are witty, wise and Bold. I'll post when I genuinely have something authentic to say. From my heart.

Dot Crockford's avatar

Great post with a really cool concept of focusing on things about you that will attract your audience. Gave me plenty of ideas. Thank you!

Tracy Friedlander's avatar

Awesome! I’m so glad, Dot!